高一上学期 期中测试 A 卷 本试卷共计 120 分，作答时间 100 分钟。 I. 语法填空.（10*1.5’=15’） Being disappointed is all about perspective. It took me a long time to realize this. I was under the impression that if someone did something I didn’t like, then I had the “right” to be disappointed. Of course the 1___________________ (disappoint) always led to me having the “right” to be upset, depressed, or angry. After all, the situation didn’t turn out the way it 2___________________ (suppose) to, or a particular person didn’t behave the way I 3___________________ (believe) he or she should. Therefore, I was disappointed and felt let 4___________________. I never once thought it was just my attitude to the matter 5___________________ caused my disappointment and that I could control this! What I slowly began to realize through studying myself, as well as 6___________________ (pay) attention to others around me, was that those 7___________________ (thing) that would upset me, would not upset someone else. I also noticed that those things that appeared to be the biggest deal to someone else only 8___________________ (make) me laugh. So what was going on? 9___________________ (obvious), it couldn’t be the situation itself because that was the one constant thing in each equation. What did change was who was explaining the situation. That was 10___________________ was different. II. 完形填空（20*1.5’=30’） People hold different views on almost anything, mainly because of the culture we are familiar with or the education we have received. We live in a 1 world where people are quick to point out the faults and imperfections of others, yet seem unaware of their own. Some misguided souls believe they have a duty to help you to be a better person by tlling you what a failure you really are first and then offering suggestions as to how you can improve. So what is the possible solution to 2? If you are the one forcing others to feel 3 themselves, STOPMake a conscious decision rather than 4 the negative aspect of a person's performance or attitudes. You'll offer helpful suggestions from the beginning. If I'm painting our living room and 5 in doing so, I would like my husband to say to me, "This is a tough job. Can I offer a suggestion that might make it easier for you?" rather than have him point out what a 6 painter I am and then tell me how I should be doing it. If you are on the 7 end of criticism, the "OK" response is a perfect solution. When someone comments negatively on a task you are doing or a personality issue of yours, a(n) 8 response is to defend and attack. However, this approach is rarely effective as it puts both parties on the 9 Instead, simply reply with "OK". This brief one-word response 10 the other person's comment without agreeing with it or feeling necessary to engage in a debate about it. It is important to remain emotionally attached to what the other person is saying, to listen without feeling, to be a(n) 11 observer. In fact, there is much that one can learn from a 12 review. You can ask yourself: Did I make a mistake? Could I have done better? Did I give 100% of myself to the task at hand? If so, how can I improve myself? As for chronic (习惯性的) criticizers: It is important to set strict boundary with them. Remove yourself from their 13 when necessary. 14 , one can learn to be "OK" with criticism and not allow it to negatively impact your life or relationship with the other party. Examine it for any potential 15, and then let it go and just be "OK". 1. A. dependent 2. A. criticism B. judgmental B. imperfection C. selfish C. failure D. creative D. unawareness 3. A. devoted to B. connected with C. ashamed of D. concerned about 4. A. turn down B. get rid of C. cover up 5. A. making a mess C. having fun D. focus on B. asking for trouble D. offering a helpful hand 6. A. considerate B. careless C. humble D. modest 7. A. forcing B. receiving C. criticizing 8. A. avoidable B. meaningless C. extreme 9. A. impolite B. dangerous C. defensive D. B. acknowledges C. eliminates D. D. advising D. natural regretful 10. A. ignores declines 11. A. active B. initiative 12. A. reasonable B. agreeable C. creative D. objective C. negative D. instructive 13. A. praise B. presence 14. A. In any case B. On the contrary C. comment D. help C. To begin with D. For instance 15. A. harm B. conflict C. obstacle D. truth III. 阅读理解 (20*2’=40’) A China Small Group Tours ◆Tour Route 1: 11 Days Private Beijing -